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I was taken aback when I read Khalid Sohail say, "Like many people born in Pakistan I do not have a family name."

 

The fact is that almost everyone in Pakistan has a last name/family name/sir name. However, at times some in the middle class, especially in the Punjab, drop their last names of their fathers and take on their father's first name.

 

Hence one could have a situation where the father's name was Fazal Chaudhry, but the son would be Khalid Fazal.

 

At times this is a bizarre attempt to promote an urban identity. Two things are common in the Punjab. First, the person drops the use of his mother-tongue Punjabi and embraces Urdu. Secondly, any last name that would link him to a so-called backward area/rural area is shunned. These middle class Punjabis go to the extent of ensuring their children never speak to them in their mother tongue, instead adopting the supposedly superior Urdu language.

 

Let me share with you a few last names that might ring a bell:

 

Tapal

Bizenjo

Mengal

Daultana

Choudhury

Solangi

Siddiqui

Qureshi

Zaidi

Warraich

Khan

Goraya

Marri

Magsi

Bhutto

Baloch

Solangi

Narejo

Mamdot

Kasuri

and of course, Fatah.

 

Cheers.  

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