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 Dear Rashid

 

Now I understand you better, but I still regard the view as odd, and unnecessarily bleak. You seem to regard the “action and reaction” as always a negative thing, which it surely isn’t; it’s just part of the human condition. It is the language of love and comedy, as well as hatred and tragedy. As you yourself concede, you’re doing it too, in your reaction to what I wrote. And given that humans do that, isn’t it better that it be in words (when the concepts are in conflict) than in hostile action?

 

Yes, to some extent we humans are conditioned creatures. But we can also be independent-minded enough to escape that conditioning. The very fact that you and I acknowledge our conditioning is evidence of that. You say our conditioning has fragmented us into religions and tribes. That is historically true, but less so than before. In our increasingly globalised world, old barriers and unsupportable traditions are breaking down. Our fathers had prejudices that we lack. A black man has just become the most powerful man in the world.

 

One of my complaints about the Muslim world is that it has, in general, been slower to abandon the kinds of dualities you complain about. I see this in the refusal of many Muslims to acknowledge the morality of people who are not Muslim. I see it in the concept of the umma; why should co-religionists matter more than other people?

 

You say that none of you are enlightened by what I have written. Yet I am unsure why that should be. I certainly did not expect people with long-established views simply to change them on my say-so. However, enlightenment mainly involves understanding, and, agree with them or not, my views are fairly clear. For example, take what I have written in this message. Is it “blabber’ or “psychobabble”? If you would call it that, Rashid, then I can only assume that you want to reduce all human communication to purely functional utterances, such as “Pass the salt” or “I’ll take the red car with the manual transmission”.

 

Regards

Peter 

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