RETHINKING RELIGIOSITY AND FUNDAMENTALISM

Family of the Heart - DIALOGUE & DISCUSSIONS 

                   LETTER TO ABRAR HASSAN

Dear Abrar,

          This morning I was reading your first collection of poems and wondering why the readers, writers and critics have not discussed your book. Do you know why it was ignored?

          I wonder whether the reason of ignoring your poems was because of their non-traditional character. Most poets use poetry to express and communicate their feelings. Wordsworth stated that poetry was overflow of emotions. But in your case you write poems to share your thoughts and ideas. Your poems are mostly philosophical. Most writers use prose to share their philosophy and write essays. So you use poems to share what others use essays to communicate. Do you think that might be one reason why readers and writers and critics do not know how to respond to your poems.

          When I read the introduction of your book I realized that you had tried to communicate different stages of the growth of human mind and personality. Being a psychotherapist I have great interest in that aspect of human growth. If I understood you correctly you have mapped out different stages of human growth.

          The first stage is of blind faith. People are born in a family, community and culture and accept the values of their culture without questioning them and go through cultural conditioning.

          The second stage makes them question and challenge the traditional values. But to do that they need a certain stage of maturity and growth. Some people never question the values of their culture and die with the beliefs of their parents.

          The third stage is of confusion and isolation and alienation. In this stage people know what they do not want but are not sure of what they want and believe in. Such confusion can be short lived or people can spend years and decades in that confusion.

          The fourth stage is of enlightenment. People discover their own truth that is different than the traditional truth. Such personal truth helps them find a set of values that makes their lives meaningful. There are only few who are lucky enough to reach that stage.

          Dear Abrar, I wonder whether you have reached that stage of enlightenment. If you have can you share with me how your values are different than the values you grew up in and how those new values have changed your lifestyle and how do you deal and cope with those friends and relatives who still maintain their conservative and traditional values. What is your philosophical position now about Religion, Scriptures, Prophets and Life after Death? What are your views about Time. Do you think human mind can capture the bigger truth? Do you still believe in God? If not what do you think of billions who believe in Him?

          Do you consider yourself an atheist, humanist, agnostic or free thinker? Your article Confessions of a Religious Fundamentalist in published on chowk website today. What inspired you to write that essay or fictional story? What do you think of religious fundamentalists?

          Looking forward to your response.

Affectionately,

Sohail

May 27th, 2008

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